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The Iceberg Presentation

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Published on June 22, 2008

Author: dcarter73

Source: slideshare.net

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A 70 minute PowerPoint presentation with audio narration re: the effects of growing up in a less-than-nurturing family on relationship skills, coping styles, successful living and motivation.
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“ The Iceberg” Internet-of-the-Mind.com BY: Don Carter, MSW, LCSW

1. No Blame Policy 2. Healing the Past 3. Parents Do Their Best 4. Stop Passing it On 5. Focus on You 6. Role-Modeling Health Points to Remember Internet-of-the-Mind.com

1. No Blame Policy

2. Healing the Past

3. Parents Do Their Best

4. Stop Passing it On

5. Focus on You

6. Role-Modeling Health

 

Abandonment

- Food, Shelter, Clothing - Medical Attention - Safety & Protection Survival Dependency Needs Internet-of-the-Mind.com

Time Attention - Affection Direction Emotional Dependency Needs Internet-of-the-Mind.com

Time

Attention

- Affection

Direction

Emotional Dependency Needs Time = Love Attention - Affection Direction Internet-of-the-Mind.com

Time = Love

Attention

- Affection

Direction

Emotional Dependency Needs Time = Love Attention = Worth - Affection Direction Internet-of-the-Mind.com

Time = Love

Attention = Worth

- Affection

Direction

Emotional Dependency Needs Time = Love Attention = Worth - Affection = Approval Direction Internet-of-the-Mind.com

Time = Love

Attention = Worth

- Affection = Approval

Direction

Emotional Dependency Needs Time = Love Attention = Worth - Affection = Approval Direction: Guidance = Competence Internet-of-the-Mind.com

Time = Love

Attention = Worth

- Affection = Approval

Direction:

Guidance = Competence

Emotional Dependency Needs Time = Love Attention = Worth - Affection = Approval Direction: Guidance = Competence Discipline = Character Internet-of-the-Mind.com

Time = Love

Attention = Worth

- Affection = Approval

Direction:

Guidance = Competence

Discipline = Character

Abandonment

Abandonment Shame

Abandonment Shame Contempt

Externalizers Prone to Anger Self-Centered -Shameless & Blameless -Harm to others -Rigid Boundaries -“Anti”-Dependent -Intrusive/Aggressive Counter-Dependent Internalizers -Prone to Depress -Other-Centered -Full of Shame -Harm to self -Weak Boundaries -Dependent -People Pleasers Co-Dependent The “Scab” of Contempt Internet-of-the-Mind.com

Externalizers

Prone to Anger

Self-Centered

-Shameless & Blameless

-Harm to others

-Rigid Boundaries

-“Anti”-Dependent

-Intrusive/Aggressive

Counter-Dependent

Abandonment Shame Contempt False Self

Abandonment Shame Contempt External Focus False Self

Abandonment Shame Contempt External Focus Cover-Ups Invented Self False Self

Survival Roles “ Invented Self” Alcoholic Co-Dependent Internet-of-the-Mind.com

Hero Alcoholic Co-Dependent Internet-of-the-Mind.com Survival Roles “ Invented Self”

Hero Rebel Alcoholic Co-Dependent Internet-of-the-Mind.com Survival Roles “ Invented Self”

Hero Rebel Lost Child Alcoholic Co-Dependent Internet-of-the-Mind.com Survival Roles “ Invented Self”

Hero Rebel Lost Child Mascot Alcoholic Co-Dependent Internet-of-the-Mind.com Survival Roles “ Invented Self”

Abandonment Shame Contempt False Self External Focus Cover-Ups Invented Self

Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups True Self False Self External Focus Invented Self

Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups Food Alcohol Drugs Gambling Sex Work Risk- Taking Drama *Comfort & Relief* True Self Invented Self False Self External Focus

Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups Needy people Food Alcohol Drugs Gambling Sex Work Risk Taking Drama True Self Invented Self False Self External Focus *Comfort & Relief*

Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups Needy people Food Alcohol Drugs Gambling Sex Work Risk Taking Drama True Self Invented Self False Self External Focus *Comfort & Relief*

Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups Needy people Food Alcohol Drugs Gambling Sex Work Risk Taking Drama True Self *Control* False Self External Focus Invented Self *Comfort & Relief*

External Focus Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups Needy people Food Alcohol Drugs Gambling Sex Work Risk Taking Drama True Self *Control* CRASH!! HIT Bottom Invented Self False Self *Comfort & Relief*

Abandonment Shame Contempt Cover-Ups True Self False Self Invented Self External Focus *Control* *Comfort & Relief* Self-Help Counseling

Abandonment Shame Contempt Internal Focus *Control* H.O.W. Higher Power Recovery Program False Self *Comfort & Relief* Early Recovery True Self

H.O.W. Higher Power Recovery Program Internal Focus *Comfort & Relief* Middle Recovery Healing True Self

H.O.W. Recovery Program Higher Power Internal Focus True Self

“ The Iceberg” Internet-of-the-Mind.com BY: Don Carter, MSW, LCSW

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