Do you have the system to meet both of your needs yet?

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Published on February 20, 2014

Author: emmakviglucci

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Being seen and accepted for who we are is a basic need that specially plays out in our relationship. I find that the driver behind most conflict and dissatisfaction in relationships has to do with the partners feeling they can’t be themselves in one way or another.

Keep reading for how this impacts your relationship and how to create a system to prevent pitfalls and assist you create the relationship you want:
http://www.metrorelationship.com/SuccessfulCouples/2014/02/do-you-have-the-system-yet/

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Copyright (c) 2014 Emma K. Viglucci. All rights reserved.

RELATIONSHIP INSIGHT: Do You Have the System to Meet Both of Your Needs Yet? Being seen and accepted for who we are is a basic need that specially plays out in our relationship. I find that the driver behind most conflict and dissatisfaction in relationships has to do with the partners feeling they can't be themselves in one way or another.

When partners judge, criticize, control, demean, sabotage and other goodies they prevent each other from embracing their awesomeness, their Legacy, and from (identifying and) fulfilling their Life's Purpose. Therefore, there is incongruency for partners between their experience in the relationship and their sense of Self.

Here is where the balance between security and identify needs comes in. There usually is a gender manifestation around this where the women (more female energied partner) champion for we-ness and togetherness and the men (more male energied partner) champion for individuality and space.

The approach to bridge these seemingly opposing needs is to set up a system that supports and encourages both: Staying connected to our partner while taking time for our Self and our pursuits, or doing things our way…

Read the complete article for instructions on setting up your system to support balancing we-ness and individuality in your relationship: http://www.metrorelationship.com/SuccessfulCouples/2014/02/d o-you-have-the-system-yet/ Employ a Groundhog Day approach to your system - keep striving for a masterpiece system with the knowledge that it's a work in progress and perfection doesn't exsist. Happy Groundhoging! Copyright (c) 2014 Emma K. Viglucci. All rights reserved.

Emma K. Viglucci is the Founder and Director of Metropolitan Marriage & Family Therapy, PLLC, a private practice that specializes in working with couples, is the creator of the MetroRelationship™ philosophy and a variety of Successful Couples ™ programs and products that assist couples succeed at their relationship and life. To get your downloadable relationship enrichment insights and receive her weekly successful couples articles, nurturing nuggets (sm) and other resources visit: www.metrorelationship.com.

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