Being Needy in a Relationship

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Published on November 14, 2013

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Am I being needy in my relationship? This is a question women ask themselves sometimes. For support visit

Being Needy in a Relationship Am I being needy in my relationship? This is a question women ask themselves sometimes. A relationship can be overwhelming. Sometimes, individuals barely realized that they are being needy. Maybe, you have experienced this yourself. It is easy to give in to your emotions that you barely observe you are already being needy in a relationship. The Wrong Approach When taking steps toward intimacy or passion, you must make sure that you know how to measure or gauge your partner's reply to your actions. You must know when to wait. Sometimes, women who are too fast to take action are perceived as needy. For instance, if your date went so fine, do not immediately ask for another date the next day. Let the guy request you out. You do not want to come across as pushy. Frequently, guys need some room to think. Even after they have a awesome time with you on your date, he will most possibly want to think and consider if he would like to go further with you. If you are wondering, "Am I being needy?" The answer is obvious. Yes, you are. The Right Approach If you would like to reach out without sounding aggressive, you might want to say, "I had a great time. I would like to have time with you again. What about next weekend?" If your date is fascinated, he will likely respond with, "I had a great time as well. I

would really like to spend sometime with you again. What about Wednesday?" By taking this approach, you will be able to confirm your concern and excitement without sounding pushy or needy. You will be able to give him his breathing space without eliminating the chance to get his feedback. Passion and romance have to find certain balance. It is important that you do not pressure your date into anything he is not ready for. Do not push him into taking the next step when he is not ready for it. Let him think it over and give him enough breathing room. Allow him make the move. Being needy and pushy generally make impression that you have low self-esteem. The next time you ask yourself, "Am I being needy?" Take a good look at yourself because you just might be. Passion is not intrusive. Always respect the other person's boundaries. Karinna Kittles-Karsten, The Love Educator, is the founder of an online dating, love school and fun couples membership site. She is also an internationally recognized relationship expert, speaker, author of the best-selling book, Intimate Wisdom, The Sacred Art of Love, and the creator/host of the popular DVD Sacred Love-Making. Visit

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